For longer than anyone can remember the Highland Park pecan tree stood at the crossroads of Armstrong, Preston Road and Lakeside. It had spent its youth growing in height when the late Margaret Crow and Margaret McDermott were just young gals. Over the decades it had weathered all types of storms, both natural and man-made. In late October the grand tree ended its reign as the symbol of its community.
So another reign came to an end Saturday when journalist Robert “Bob” Miller passed away at the age of 96. Like the tree, Bob had meant so much for generations of North Texans weathering all types of news, both natural and man-made.
He had started at The Dallas Morning News in 1951 writing obituaries at $52.50 a week and eventually began reporting for the paper that was in daily competition with its counterpart the Dallas Times Herald. In those days, his goal was to get the story out accurately and to beat the other side of the street. He didn’t have any grandiose plans of serving as a mentor for others and championing the efforts for the needy in North Texas.
But then those were the days when newsrooms were filled with the sound of stories being hammered out on manual typewriters by rewrite men, copy boys hustling about and cigarette smoke abounding.
It soon became apparent to the powers-that-be that Bob wasn’t your everyday reporter. He wasn’t confined to just covering assignments. Thanks to his God-given curiosity and his right-hand partner/wife Shirley Briggle Miller, he went beyond knowing names of people and places. He got to know their backstories and their six-degrees-of-separation.
Blending this knowledge with his journalistic genes, he rose through the newsroom ranks, becoming the DMN’s assistant managing editor overseeing a staff of reporters, copy editors and editors. He was the paper’s non-physical version of Lou Grant. Pity the poor first-day staffer who thought Bob was going to shepherd him/her through learning the ropes. If a cub reporter assigned to cover a trial asked, “Where is the courthouse?” Bob’s look of shock was enough to send the fledgling home to mommy. But it would also provide a chuckle among the newsroom old-timers, who recalled that same look when they had asked a similar question during their early tenure. But they also recognized the mischievous twinkle in his eyes that offered forgiving.
Once, when Neiman Marcus was holding its annual Fortnight Ball gala at the Fairmont benefiting UT Southwestern, comedian Jack Benny was to be the featured entertainer. At the last minute, though, Benny had to cancel. When Bob stepped away from the ballroom, he ran into the paper’s 20-something society writer. “Did you hear Benny canceled?” Bob asked. The writer proudly answered, “Yes, I was in the room when they examined him and he was having problems with his hands. They pulled three doctors from the ballroom to check him out, and they think he might be having a stroke.”
Silence. Bob gritted his teeth and asked, “Did you call the desk with that story?” The writer didn’t say anything. With eyes shut to avoid “the look,” she shook her head, “No.” Trying to stay calm, Bob escorted her to a nearby bank of payphones and told her to call it in. She grimaced and asked, “Do you have a dime?”
As gruff as he may have seemed to the new recruits, Bob also was a loyal defender. At a time when women were a minority in newsrooms, Carolyn Barta was covering Dallas City Hall. According to the policy of the day, if a woman got pregnant, she was fired. So the story goes that when Carolyn got pregnant, Bob “tried to protect Barta from that fate, hiding her pregnancy from his bosses as long as he could. He hired her back after her first son was born and also after her second.”
In 1985, when others were retiring, Bob’s journalistic career took a turn. He, then-DMN Business Editor Cheryl Hall and DMN editor Bob Mong decided the section would benefit from a column that was right up Bob’s alley. It dealt with the business of philanthropists and nonprofits. Seriously? When young journalists were cutting their teeth on computers hoping to be the next Woodward-Bernstein, the veteran reporter-editor was going to be covering the realm of the haves and have-nots?
But Bob fooled those naysayers. His column became the must-read by all levels of society. One high-powered executive admitted that Bob’s column was worth a million dollars to his educational institution.
In creating his new venture, Bob brought along his old ways. He had his self-made policies. Didn’t cover golf tournaments nor cover fundraisers that benefited only one religious group. It was a rare occasion when he would have lunch away from the office. New PR folks quickly learned that it took more than one attempt to get a press release past him. The first couple or three had evidently gotten lost in the mail, the fax machine messed up, etc.
They also found that Bob on the phone was just like Bob in the newsroom. It was his Miller Mumble. Lucky were those who could translate his conversations. They were a wealth of storied histories. Drop a name, an event or a place and Bob could reel off more information than a Google search engine.
When Miller filed his 8,504th column on July 1, 2015, he closed the books on a career that had spanned 64 years with The News.
Even after “retirement,” the 90-something Bob and his Shirley continued to make the rounds being celebrated with accolades and having dinners with friends. Why, just this October they went to the State Fair!
In hindsight, tornadoes that rarely hit Dallas proper played important landmarks in Bob’s life. One of Bob’s first journalistic highlights was covering the 1957 tornado that hit Oak Cliff. Sixty-two years later another tornado on Sunday, October 20, ended up damaging the Millers’ home, resulting in Bob’s health going downhill quickly.
We extend our condolences to the family, friends and those who benefited from Bob’s wisdom, talents, sense of humor and patience.
Abra Garrett says
He was extraordinary.
Bradley Miller says
Thanks for your wonderful article, Jeanne. I just read it to my mom. She loved it. I’m sure my dad would have, too.
Carol Goglia says
Amazing man. Lovely tribute who did so much for North Texas.
Ed Crane says
What made Robert Miller’s column so unique was its location in the business section. The readership there was much different than the society/life section. Those of us in fundraising coveted inclusion in his column. He brought philanthropy to a new audience.
Paige McDaniel says
I loved Mr. Miller. He always answered the phone and while he didn’t suffer fools, he helped me as a newbie non-profit professional and volunteer. I feel blessed to have known him!
Kristi Bare says
This is truly a sad day for Dallas. Bob was one of a kind and I loved working with him as a PR professional for many, many years. While he could be gruff – he also was so kind. I loved calling him to pitch a story because once we got past the reason for my call I could always count on him saying, “do you have time for a story?” Which of course I did even if I didn’t. He was a wealth of information and had so many great stories about Dallas and Dallasites. Sending heartfelt condolences to his family.
Yvonne Crum says
No one in the world like him.. After each visit I had with him and/or with Shirley.. I felt a bit smarter when I left.. what a delight his humor was and his tenacity unparalleled !
Missed by all who knew him and put Yvonne Crum at the top of that LIST
Lisa Singleton says
What a lovely tribute for a lovely man. He will be missed.
Heidi Cannella says
Lovely story, Jeanne. He was a Dallas treasure.
Anne Thomas says
I’m truly sad to hear this. His body of work touched countless people and causes. He was a mainstay of everything professional. We’ve lost a friend.
Darlene Richardson says
In the late 70s there were no copy boys at the News that I recall because I, a senior high school girl, was one of them. But indeed there was plenty of smoke — from Buster Haas and Terry Kliever’s puff-puff pipes to Ol’ Pappy Frank Tolbert’s ubiquitous cigars that dangled ever-so precisely from his lips. And to the cigarette smoke of the gentle giant, Frank Reece. I saw it all and Bob Miller was watching me see it all. Thank you Bob Miller (and Bob Mann) for your extraordinary journalistic and humanitarian gifts.
Cheryl Hall says
Jeanne, this is a wonderful read.
Thanks for writing it.
Lesly Bosch Annen says
A lovely tribute to an incredible man. I will always cherish his lessons and the calls and visits we had. He was such a gift to Dallas.