Area Fundraisers Rally To Provide More Shelter And Services For Domestic Abuse Victims

What if someone hollered, “Help!” and no one could respond? Or, if they did, they sadly admitted they couldn’t help? That’s what The Family Place and other shelters have had to admit. “No vacancy!” has been posted, separating those in abusive situations trying to escape.

As of Friday, The Family Place was filled to capacity with 127 clients in the shelter and hotels, of which 83 were children.

Mike Rawlings (File photo)

Mike Rawlings (File photo)

Jennifer Staubach Gates (File photo)

Jennifer Staubach Gates (File photo)

According to the report presented by Mayor Mike Rawlings and Councilperson Jennifer Staubach Gates Friday morning, the following ugly statistics were revealed:

  • 10,154 women, children and men were turned away in the past year from shelters due to lack of space
  • 29,905 calls were received by the Dallas Police Department that were determined to be related to domestic violence
  • 30 fatalities resulted in the past two years due to domestic violence. Sadly, none of the victims reported concerns about their well-being.

The good side of the report is that victims are rising above their abuse and reaching out for help. The very-not-good-side is that their cry for help cannot be satisfied due to lack of capabilities.

The hopeful news is that major entities like Dallas Women’s Foundation, Communities Foundation of Texas, Mary Kay and Verizon have come together to defeat the physical violence living in households. But these organizations, as powerful and influential as they are, can’t shoulder the responsibility alone.

To help these people — both men and women — funding is needed from other resources. In addition to The Family Place’s Partners’ Card underway and the Texas Trailblazer Luncheon, there is the upcoming ReuNight.

This mega-must-attend affair was slated to start with cocktails in the shiny, new Forty Five Ten. Then the stellar guests including designer Donna Karan were to mosey over to The Joule’s Terrace for din-din and the lively auction.

Faisal Halum and Brian Bolke (File photo)

Faisal Halum and Brian Bolke (File photo)

Michael and Shelle Sills (File photo)

Michael and Shelle Sills (File photo)

That was the plan, but plans do change and this one did a 180-degree turn. Due to the cozy digs at The Terrace and the demands by those on the wait list, Event Co-Chairs Brian Bolke and Faisal Halum and Shelle and Michael Sills plus Honorary Chair Mary Clare Finney arranged to have the dinner/auction moved to the lawn in front of The Eyeball.

Mary Clare Finney (File photo)

Mary Clare Finney (File photo)

Todd Fiscus (File photo)

Todd Fiscus (File photo)

Paige Flink (File photo)

Paige Flink (File photo)

So the POA is that cocktails will be served in the brand, spanking new Forty Five Ten. Then guests will stroll next door to The Eye Of Dallas to sup in a tented dining room arranged by event planner extraordinaire Todd Fiscus. In addition to dessert, there will be the live auction. And, baby, this auction is going to have an extremely limited number of to-die-for packages. Stay tuned.

Thanks to the move, folks who were on the waiting list are now on the guest list. So, hustle, hustle because there just may room for you and your fav person.

But let’s get back to where the funds are going. According to The Family Place’s CEO Paige Flink, “This is why we are building a new Central Dallas Counseling Center and additional Emergency Shelter space at Ann Moody Place. You can contribute to the Legacy Campaign and help us build for the future so we don’t have to turn anyone away.

“You can buy a Partners Card now through November 6. The $70 for each card purchase goes directly to The Family Place and provides one night of safety for a woman and her child.”

Hopefully, big funding will take place at ReuNight because there are men, women and children depending upon each penny.